Safety
Only Lesbians is for women who want to meet women nearby. The age check is free, profiles are reviewed by people, and joining does not put a charge on a bank statement.Adults only
You confirm you are 18 or over when you join. The age check is free. A person reviews your ID. Other members never see the document, and your legal name is not put on your profile. Until the check is approved, other members' photos stay blurred and you cannot message anyone.
Profiles and photos are reviewed
A person reviews profiles and uploaded photos. There are no bots. Do not upload a photo that includes a child. If you see one, report the profile.
If someone makes you unsafe
Open their profile and press Report profile. They are not told that you reported them. Block is separate. After you block someone, they cannot find you, and you cannot open their profile. You can do both. We review reports and remove accounts that break the rules.
Report a request for money, a threat, a request for your ID, or anything involving a child. You do not have to keep replying while you decide.
How to report a profile. How to block someone. Report abuse. How to block and report someone.
Who can see you
A profile on Only Lesbians is for members who are signed in. Searching the web does not open it. Other members see the username you chose, your age, your town, and the photos you chose. They do not see your surname, your home address, your workplace, or your phone number, unless you type those in yourself.
You can pause the profile. Other members cannot find it while it is paused, and you can still look. You can hide from members in your own town, and you can hide from an email address so the two of you never see each other.
Women can look at profiles without a visit being announced. A message, a flirt, a like, or a favourite still uses your name.
Until someone has done the age check, other members' photos stay blurred for them, and they cannot message.
Who can see your profile. How to pause your profile. How it works.
Money
Only Lesbians will never ask you for money, a gift card, or a move to WhatsApp. A member who does is not speaking for the site. Joining is free and messaging is free, so there is no charge on a bank statement.
Anti-scam policy. Scam awareness. What a romance scam looks like. Spotting a fake profile.
Meeting someone
Stay on Only Lesbians until you know who you are writing to. Meet in a public place, and use your own way there and your own way home.
Safe online dating. Meeting someone safely. Why it is better to stay on the site.
Your account
You can pause the profile without deleting the account. If you delete the account, your profile and the messages you sent are removed. Delete your photos and videos first, or deletion stops until they are gone. This cannot be undone.
How to delete your account. Privacy policy. Website security.
If you need help
Questions go to customer support, and we reply by email. If you are worried about a member, report the profile. If someone is in immediate danger, call 999. If you believe someone is being trafficked, the terms name the National Human Trafficking Hotline.
Before you join. Contact. Report an issue. Anti-trafficking.
Frequently asked questions
Do I have to do the age check?
Yes, before you can message anyone. The check is free. A person reviews your ID. Until it is approved, other members' photos stay blurred and you cannot message.
Will other members see my ID?
No. Other members never see the document, and your legal name is not put on your profile.
Can a web search find my profile?
No. A profile on Only Lesbians is for members who are signed in. Searching the web does not open it.
Can I block someone?
Yes. Open their profile and press Block. They cannot find you, and you cannot open their profile. Report profile is separate, and they are not told that you reported them.
Will this show on a bank statement?
No. Joining Only Lesbians is free and messaging is free. There is no subscription and no credit card, so there is no charge on a statement.
What happens if I delete my account?
Your profile and the messages you sent are removed. Delete your photos and videos first, or deletion stops until they are gone. This cannot be undone.