Only Lesbians is free, so there is nothing to save by moving to WhatsApp, a phone number, or Instagram. A member who says the site charges, and that another app is the way around it, is not telling you the truth.
A number and a social profile are your ordinary life. They sit next to your name, your friends, and a lock screen other people can see. A username here does not. That matters in a house, a workplace, or a family that you are not ready to tell. When your family would talk is the longer version. Staying here also means you can still block and report. A number you have sent cannot be unsent.
You do not need her number to agree a time and a café. If she will not continue unless you leave the site, you already have an answer. Spotting a fake profile is the earlier version of that pressure. Romance scams is what often comes after the move.
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