Before you join
Read how Only Lesbians handles the age check, who can see a profile, and a request for money. You can read this before you create an account.The age check
You confirm you are 18 or over when you join. The age check is free. A person reviews the ID. Other members never see it, and your legal name is not put on the profile. Until it is approved, you cannot message, and other members' photos stay blurred. Search also needs a confirmed email and one photo.
How the age check works. The Online Safety Act. How it works.
Who can see a profile
A profile on Only Lesbians is for members who are signed in. Searching the web does not open it. Other members see the username you chose, your age, your town, and the photos you chose. You can pause the profile, hide from your own town, or hide from an email address. Women can look without a visit being announced.
Profiles are reviewed
A person reviews profiles and uploaded photos. There are no bots. Do not upload a photo that includes a child. If you see one, report the profile.
A request for money
Only Lesbians will never ask you for money, a gift card, a ticket, a fee, or a verification payment. A member who says the site has charged them is not speaking for the site. Stop, report the profile, and block them.
Nothing on a bank statement
Joining is free and messaging is free. There is no subscription and no credit card, so there is no charge on a statement.
Your account
You can pause the profile without deleting it. If you delete the account, your profile and the messages you sent are removed. Delete photos and videos first. This cannot be undone. The site uses SSL/TLS. A message may be reviewed when we are looking into abuse, fraud, or a scam.
How to delete your account. Privacy policy. Website security.
If something is wrong
Open their profile and press Report profile. They are not told that you reported them. Block is separate. If someone is in immediate danger, call 999.
How to report a profile. How to block someone. Report abuse. Contact. Safe online dating. Meeting someone safely. Anti-trafficking.
Frequently asked questions
Do I have to do the age check?
Yes, before you can message anyone. It is free. A person reviews the ID. Until it is approved, other members' photos stay blurred and you cannot message.
Can a web search find my profile?
No. A profile on Only Lesbians is for members who are signed in. Searching the web does not open it.
Will this show on a bank statement?
No. Joining Only Lesbians is free and messaging is free. There is no subscription and no credit card.
Are messages private?
A conversation stays in the inbox. It is not shown on the profile. We may review a message when we are looking into abuse, fraud, or a scam. The site uses SSL/TLS.
Where do I report a problem?
Open their profile and press Report profile. They are not told that you reported them. A problem with the site itself goes through Report an issue, or the contact form.