Say it in the profile even though the site already knows. "I am a woman in my forties, in Brighton, looking to meet a woman" gives her something to answer. Lesbian dating is the page about the site itself. This one is the profile: what to put on it, and what to leave off.
Write the hope in plain words. A relationship, company, or something lighter are different sentences. If you are divorced, dating after a divorce is that page. If you are just out of something, just out of a relationship is the shorter version. If it has been years, you have not dated in years is the slower start. If your family would have an opinion, when your family would talk is how to keep the profile small.
Use a recent photo of your face. Leave your surname, your workplace, and anyone else's name off. You do not owe a more revealing picture, a phone number, or a move to another app because you are two women. Photos that get a reply is the useful picture. Why it is better to stay on the site is the number you do not send yet.
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