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Is a free dating site actually free?

What Only Dating charges, what it does not, and what the free age check is for.
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Yes. Creating an Only Lesbians account is free, and sending a message is free. There is no subscription, no credit to buy before you can say hello, and no paid boost.

You will not be asked for a card to join, to upload a photo, or to keep a conversation going. If a member says the site has charged her, or that you need to pay to read her messages, she is not telling you the truth. Report the profile. Romance scams is that pattern.

The age check is free. Until it is done, other members' photos stay blurred and you cannot message. Search stays closed until your email is confirmed, you have added a photo, and the age check is approved. A person on our team reviews the ID. Other members never see it. The Online Safety Act is why we ask.

We will never ask you for a fee to keep using the site. The practical test is simple. Join, write a short profile, and send a message. If you were asked to pay at any of those steps, contact us. You should not have been. Are free dating sites safe for women? is the other half of that question.

Create a free account to message someone on Only Lesbians.

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