Only Lesbians is for women who want to meet women. The join form already has that choice, and it is the one selected. You do not have to explain it as if you had wandered onto a general dating site. You can still say it in a sentence, because a photo does not always tell people. "I am a woman in Bristol, looking to meet a woman" is a complete opening.
Sexuality on the profile has a choice called Homosexual. Select it if that is the word that fits. You can write lesbian in your own sentence as well. You do not have to add a history, a reason, or a more revealing picture to make the word count. Women looking for women is the practical list of what else belongs on the page. If you are curious and you want that said before anyone writes, bi-curious dating is that smaller claim.
Use a recent photo of your face. Leave your surname, your workplace, and anyone else's name off the profile. The careful order is a few messages, a video call if you want one, then a public place. Meeting someone safely is that plan. You do not owe a stranger a different standard because you are both women.
Ignore the message that asks you to prove you are a lesbian, or that is only about your body. You do not have to answer it to be polite. Only Lesbians is free to join and free to message. We will never ask you for a fee. If someone does, stop and read the romance-scam guide.
Create a free account to message someone on Only Lesbians.