For starting again
You do not need a new personality. The profile does the introducing that a friend used to do.A short profile that says where you are, that you want to meet a woman, and that it has been a while, is an honest start.
One photo from this year. You can pause the profile and read before anyone can find you. The first meeting can be short and public. Only Lesbians is free to join and free to message.
Frequently asked questions
How soon do I have to meet?
You do not owe a meeting. When you want one, meet in a public place after a few messages.
Is there a fee for a new account after a long gap?
No. Joining is free and messaging is free.
Guides
You have not dated in years
How to start again when it has been years, with a current photo and a first meeting you can keep.
How long to talk before you meet
A practical order: a few messages, a video call, then a daytime meeting in a public place.
Meeting someone safely
Practical steps before you meet someone from a dating site in person.
Other situations
For parents, For life after a divorce, For single parents, For the newly single