For the newly single
There is no number of weeks you have to wait. If you are still too raw to mean it, pause.You can join while you are still working out what you want. Say so if it is true. A clause about the breakup is enough. You do not owe a new relationship to prove you have moved on.
Keep the first meetings light, public, and optional. You can pause the profile if a week is too much. Only Lesbians is free.
Frequently asked questions
How soon can I join?
When you can say what you want in one sentence. There is no waiting period on the site.
What if I am not ready to meet?
Pause the profile. Other members cannot find it while it is paused, and you can still look.
Guides
Just out of a relationship
How soon you can date after a breakup, and what to say when the ending is still recent.
For women dating after a divorce
What to say after a divorce, what to leave off a profile, and how to suggest a meeting you can actually keep.
You have not dated in years
How to start again when it has been years, with a current photo and a first meeting you can keep.
Other situations
For parents, For starting again, For life after a divorce, For single parents